Philosophy Class - The Mayonnaise Jar and the Coffee

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.

When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students in the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous „yes“. The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty spaces around the sand. The students laughed. „Now“ said the professor, as the laughter subsided, „I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things, i.e. - your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favourite passions – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter, like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else, i.e. The small stuff. „If you pour the sand into the jar first,“ he continued, „there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important for you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical check-ups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18 holes. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand“.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. „I am glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem. There is always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend“.